Mood Makers

Are you in the mood for love?  Maybe you’re not quite ready yet?  Well, once you start bringing romance back into your life or even if you’re trying it out for the first time, you will start to experience a wonderful new mood inspired by your new love affair with your spouse.  Start off slowly with the traditional romantic gestures like holding doors open, flowers, candy, little love letters and special attention to his or her needs.  Once you make these romantic gestures habits in your marriage, you will find that your appetite for more romance and other similar moods will increase with time.  You can satisfy your appetite with some fun and sensuous as well asromantic ideas.

When you find that you are ready to implement romantic acts into your daily routine with your spouse, be creative with what you can come up with.  For example, you can buy decorative pillows for the bedroom with “Tonight” and “Not Tonight” printed on either side.  You can use this as your own private signal for each other and your intentions.  Other couples will use more subtle indications as to their intentions with you in the bedroom. 

When you want to think of your own, you can make up your own ‘code’ to say whenever the mood strikes you.  Maybe your wife will say “I’m getting tired” and then you can say, “Well, then let’s get you to bed.”  Try something even more subtle like saying the same word three times in the same sentence like ‘blue’ or another obvious word.  Walk up to your partner and begin humming ‘your song’ in his or her ear.  Pull a Carol Burnett and tug on your ear lobe- whatever you both agree on will be a small form of your own private foreplay that will make you want to rush home and make love!

Sometimes it takes something extra special that both you and your partner enjoy to get in the mood like chocolate!  Chocolate is one of the few things that most men and women share a love for and never tire of.  You can use chocolate in a number of ways to spark romance or initiate a little foreplay with your partner.  You can always, of course, present your spouse with a gift of their favorite chocolate and that is sometimes enough to get him or her in the mood.  Try bringing his or her favorite chocolates to bed one night and feed each other.  You can always be selfish and only allow your spouse to lick off what melts on your fingers.  Also, you can ‘accidentally’ get some melted chocolate on your spouse!  Lick it off, say that it tastes so much better on them and do it again and again!

Make plans to take a vacation completely focused on chocolate together!  Two of the world’s most famous chocolate factories are the Nestle chocolate factory in Broc, Switzerland and the Hershey Chocolate factory in Hershey, Pennsylvania.  Some people even believe that chocolate is an aphrodisiac.  Why not test this theory on your own chocolate vacation fantasy?