The Costume of a Teacher
One of the bibles of the business world is a book called
Dress for Success. This book describes
how to dress for the roll of a successful business person and that wardrobe
will help you step into that role. In
many ways the Dress for Success tells us that how we dress for work is somewhat
our "costume" and that putting on that costume of a business
professional, you naturally begin to play that role.
Most schools will have a dress code that you will have to
abide by as a teacher much as they do for the students. That dress code assures that you will dress
in a way that is not dangerous or districting or inappropriate to the job of
teaching. And that dress code brings you
in line with what the administration expects of the students. But aside from those general guidelines,
there is a lot of leverage left to you in your dress so you can express your
personality in the "costume" you wear to teach school.
The important thing to remember about the outfits you select
is that they do send a message to the students.
If you dress very formally, you are telling them to address you
respectfully and that you are very much the adult here and they are not. Even if students don’t know they are getting
your message, they are and even you don’t know you are sending a message, you
are. So its a good idea to think about
what message your outfits are sending and how you might customize your wardrobe
so the students understand who you are and what your expectations are of them
just from how you present yourself to them in class.
One big message to send with your costume is, "I am the
teacher and you are the students here."
This is not a message of superiority.
It is a message of distance.
First of all, be aware that this distance between you and the youth
socially is necessary and must be part of your approach to your job if you want
to be success long term. The classroom
is no place for a midlife crisis. Even if you like dressing in a stylish or
youthful way outside of class, in class dress like an adult and in a formal
enough way that your clothing makes a clear demarcation between you and
them.
This distinction actually makes your students feel more at
ease with you. Students get
uncomfortable when the adults over them try to blend in to youth culture too
much and become "with it". Youth people like the authority figures in
their lives to be clearly designated and for you to live up to your role as
authority figure in your behavior, your language and your wardrobe. So dress for success by having your clothing
say, I am the teacher and the students will respond in kind.
Your outfits also have to be practical. Sometimes teaching can become a physical
event. You must be prepared to bend down
to pick things up and to do some level of low key physical labor even with
students in the classroom. This means no
tight clothing that restricts your range of motion. It means no short skirts that has you worried
about the hemline and your legs all day long and shoes that can keep you going
for an entire day of very a very active teaching life.
Just as almost every profession has guidelines for how to
dress, these hidden messages and quiet efficiencies you include in your
wardrobe selection will go a long way toward making your teaching day
successful and comfortable. When your
wardrobe is right and you are dressing in the costume of a teacher, you will
"become" a teacher and step into that role you were born to play.
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