~Basic thought processes to put you in the talking mood

 

It's hard to say what will get you to talk, but you will want to take the following tips so that you can be comfortable, be yourself, and also come up some of the small chat. A lot of people get nervous when they go to a party or some social event because they have no idea who these people are and rather or not they will be inviting to talk to, but you still need to think out of the box and focus on confidence. 

When it comes to getting comfortable you will find that small talk is the key. You will want to consider the fact that when you talk you don't have to say anything that is too important. Think about some of the things that you have heard on the news lately or a joke that you heard in the car over the radio. You will want to consider the fact that the little chat is a way for you to break the ice and the tensions in the room.  You will also want to consider thinking about joining in a conversation. Listen to what they are saying and the thoughts and words will just pour out of your mind. 

There are also a lot of times where you have to go to something and you just don't feel like being social. Don't make this an awkward night. You will need to make the most out of your time here, so you will want to build your though process with sum small talk until you have found something of value to convert about. You will want to consider starting small to find a few people to talk to all night, but then you can get into some serious conversation once everyone feels comfortable. By the end of the night you will find that the conversation will just flow nicely. 

You will find that there are a lot of ways for you to get into the conversation, but you have to build your thoughts and your confidence. Confidence is the biggest reason why someone will just be the wallflower at a party. You will want to consider trying to meet someone who you know and are comfortable with and have them introduce you to others. The meet and greet will allow you to find someone to talk to and spend some the time with. You will also find that the friend or mate can be a backup so that when you are done socializing; you still have someone to talk to and laugh it off. 

With your confidence and small talk you will be able to make any night a good night. You will want to consider the fact that it is your confidence that will make you feel like doing more than just small talk. It is very important that you think about some of the ways that you can build the confidence, but also go out of your comfort zone so that you don't look like the wallflower. 

Keep in mind that you don't have to be the life of the party, but it is important that you make the most out of the situation. It may be your job on the line or a promotion so you will want to keep the thought process going. When you make an effort you will be rewarded for your trouble, but you will also find that it will just simply make your night better. You will want to consider trying to make your own though process according to what works for you. If you want to go with facts like some of the big local news, that's great, but you can also talk about interests like movies and music.